5 Biggest Things That Turn Men Off (Girls Will Be Shocked)!!!

Turnoff #1: Flakiness

Guys report that one of the biggest turnoffs when dating a woman is when she either can’t commit to plans or constantly flakes on plans. If you regularly pencil in your plans with a “maybe” and/or cancel plans at the last minute, you’re giving your guy the impression that he’s tentative in your life, aka “good enough for now.” Who wants to date someone who makes them feel temporary? Chances are you don’t, and you shouldn’t be the girl who makes her date feel that way either.

Turnoff #2: Poor communication skills

Raise your hand if you’ve been this girl in your relationship past: your date/boyfriend said or did something you didn’t like, but instead of saying anything, you went along with it. You may have even said it was “fine.” But then at some point down the road, you got upset. Maybe you even blew up at an inappropriate time, causing an argument that completely took your significant other off guard. Most of us have been guilty of passive aggressive behavior at least once in our dating past. It happens. But when you repeat that kind of behavior over and over in any dating/relationship scenario, the only thing you’ll succeed at is sabotaging your efforts. Just as you deserve to be with someone who’s comfortable communicating his wants, needs, and desires, you, too, should be a healthy communicator. Don’t say one thing if you really mean another. Instead, get in the habit of saying what you mean. Guys appreciate that!

Turnoff #3: Not playing fair

From your initial encounter to your first date and beyond, guys pay attention to whether or not you’re playing fair. If, for example, you always expect the guy to come to your side of town, pick you up, open your door, pay the check, drop you off, call you the next day, and in general placate your every need without you so much as lifting a finger, you’re not dating fairly. More important, if there’s a disagreement and you don’t fight fairly, i.e., you throw things in his face, hold grudges, and insist on winning every argument, you’re going to be a very lonely single girl because you’re not being fair. In the new millennium, chivalry goes both ways and the dating game requires plenty of give-and-take. If you can be fair in dating times both good and bad, guys will dig you so much more!

Turnoff #4: Trying to change him

It’s almost cliché how often in the media we see, hear, or read about a woman who tries to change her man. Whether it’s changing how he dresses, what he watches on TV, his manners, or his friends, the woman at the helm of all this change always comes off as a control freak. Don’t be that girl. Just as the guy in your life should accept you warts and all, you, too, should accept him for who he is. And if you can’t? Don’t date him. It’s as simple as that. The whole point of being single and dating is to meet a variety of different people, find out who you are as well as who your perfect partner might be, and eventually settle down with someone who’s right for you. Rather than trying to change the wrong guy into Mr. Right, why not keep playing the field until you meet that special someone who’s far from perfect but whose imperfections you have no desire to change? (He’s out there — keep looking!)

Turnoff #5: Ultimatums

Nothing turns a man off more than a woman who gives him an ultimatum. Not only are they not sexy, they’re ineffective. Healthy and happy relationships don’t need ultimatums. When you’re regularly communicating your needs to the person you’re in a relationship with, ultimatums are unnecessary. It’s when communication breaks down, when one person feels his or her needs aren’t being met, or when the relationship isn’t going in the direction one had hoped or at the speed one had anticipated, that ultimatums are usually issued. A huge turn-off, ultimatums are a tricky relationship tactic and should be avoided at all costs.

So there you have it — the top five male turnoffs. By understanding the dating and mating behaviors that shut men down, you ultimately master the art of how to turn the right guy on. Good luck and happy dating!

We also want to know what is the #1 Turnoff in your opinion!

199 comments:

  1. weird and pointles tbqh

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  3. i'm a girl but o well and the thing that put me offf is wen all boys think about is sex, thet'res more to a relationship than sex tbh!

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  4. well its not just women who are like that it is also guys and some of us women are independent but u guys try to do every thing for us and when we do u all think we are becoming dependent so its not really our fault but then again it is and also not all girls are like that

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  5. Number one or number five is the biggest turn off

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  6. wow i didnt know tht but i dont try to change guys i joke around when a guy burps i'll say "what do u say mister?!" in like semi high voice

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  7. i'm sort of wondering if this was written by a guy or a girl, or a male tht iz only turned off by tht, i want 2 kno who wrote ths cuz i dont want 2 b given advice from som1 who iz the only man who getz turned off by tht, i want 2 kno tht all men r.....then again, som men r willing 2 do som of those things even if we dont ask them 4 it. i also dont get the last part, iz it just on looks, tht part seems tht girls should change 4 the guy even tho we shouldnt change a guy, ths sort of makes me a little mad tht not all the times, us girls dont do tht! sometimes we put more 2 the relationships more than the guy! but do ppl make a page put of tht? no!!!!! we r always going 2 b the bad guys. i understand tht a lot of times the boys get called 2 b the bad guys even tho they arnt, but girls r now being called the bad guys in the relationships even if they didnt do anythings. i agree with u tht some things r unfair 2 the guys, but it also seems 2 b tht itz unfair 2 girls tht we always get blamed in the relationship latly even wen we didnt do anything rong

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  8. im a woman an all i think about is sex i met a great guy on a dating site and he is the first one i met we have been together for 4 months an hes every thing i want in a man warts an all lol

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  9. guys work often on double standards....they can do something but the girl cant. its not only us women who react this way or in those you suggested above. i agree it is weird and pointless!

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  10. #1 turn off for me is when a guy doesnt care about his relationship and takes it s a joke, and us girls can see it and i hate it. guys think they so mighty they can do what they want. this is a new world and women dont take mens shit anymore!

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  11. "i'm a girl but o well and the thing that put me offf is wen all boys think about is sex, thet'res more to a relationship than sex tbh!"

    to reply to that comment, not all of us guys are sex-driven fiends.... you just need to pick us out of the crowd

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  12. All 5 of those are true but 1 and 5 are what seems like the most important

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  13. #1 turn off is women being hairy!!!

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  14. This stuff is kinda common since. Guys aren't the only ones who don't enjoy those things. I mean seriously. I wouldn't like it if a guy was like that towards me therefore I wouldn't act like that....duh.

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  15. this is gay. ok all guys can be the absolute same way about girls. no joke. trust me i know~

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  16. this is pointless and gay

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  17. To Reply to a lot of you. Just about all girls think all guys want is sex. That's not true. Some guys cry from loneliness. And there's a line between the "hook-up girl" known as a chick also and the girlfriend/fiance'. Hook-up girl you only want sex because her personality sucks, all she's good for is sex, you may not even want people to know you are with her and she's basically just trashy or doesn't take a stand. Girlfriend/Potential fiance' takes herself away from the rest of the chicks. She respects the guy for who he is, and accepts him. Makes him feel important doesn't demean his man hood and etc. Not to say she takes any bull, she will let him know. And a comment to that, GUY SHOULD ALWAYS PAY ON THE DATE! Let's keep that one. He also should always hold the door for her or at least in public. Girls should however appreciate it. Say thanks when he opens the door. Cook for him once in awhile and communicate and talk. No one person should be in control. That's just me saying that. And back to the comment put that all guys think about is sex, it's basically safe to say the same about girls. Lol. No harm meant tho. When I'm ticked at a guy I say that too because some guys really do but not all.

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  18. uh well ima girl and most guys always take our "needs" as a hassle. and if guys think its a turnoff that they have to pay for our food then what the hell? we only want them to do that bcuz there guys and there supossed to treat us nicely. i understand tht some girls are demanding and what not but not all of us do that. i do agree with the unfair part but sometimes its unfair 2 girlz to!

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  20. most girls lie if you say you want to have sex after you did something rude annoying etc. we want it just as much but we know how to play it cool.when you cry about it, it just makes us more reluctant. and also we WILL find another way to satisfy ourselves. :) ~ AG

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  21. First of all, not all guys just want sex.If you dont think that, you obviously dont know enough guys.Some of us actually have pretty good personalities, suffice to say the least.And #4 i think goes both ways.You shouldnt try to change your partner, and if you have to' then its not the person you should be with.A good partner is someone who loves you for you, and someone who thinks your imperfections are what make you perfect.

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  22. You left out "1 word texts."

    You have no idea how shitty it is to spend like... 10 minutes writing one text and getting a "K", "Lol", or "Idk" in response.

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  23. Looking at porn!

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  24. Really turned-off ...

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  26. I love porn too !! :D

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  27. pointless and not helpful..

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  28. Well guys do the same things to girls often. My boyfriend ALWAYS says maybe when I ask him to come over or something. It's stupid, what a double standard.

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  29. well tbh, i'm sat next to my boyf right now and he said: "they aren't turn offs they're just what not to do in a relationship :|" sooo... :/ not really turn offs.

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  30. I'm a girl, and I think a lot of the girls who are posting on here must be like, 12. Because they're saying some pretty stupid shit. Just so you know. You aren't proving a point or anything, just looking like bimbos. Except JaiLiz or whatever. They know what they're talking about.

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  31. Not to people who say that their significant other does this: It's your fault for dating him. These is a list of things that MOST (IE, not all), men find as a turn off. I personally don't mind giving a little more than I get, but that's just because I was raised to treat woman that way.

    And most of you woman would do well to remember that not all men want in your pants 24/7. Only the immature ones want this, and (in my opinion), if you allow it even though you don't really want it, you're being just as immature as he is.

    There should be a #6 on here as well: Compromise! I suppose it could go in the category of Not Playing Fair, but it's something that most woman fail to use. Every once in awhile, you need to say "If you do this (EX: Clean the gutters, take out the trash), then I'll do this (EX: Dishes, mow the lawn.)

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  34. Ok 1.)guys should not do everything for the women cuz they're the ones that wanted equal rights and to b treated the same this isn't the dark ages so the paying the bill thing should be split between the 2 of them 2.)guys have a stronger sex drive then females so they r Gina want sex more often then there partner unless the girl is used to bein railed almost every night then the guy would most likely oblige

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  35. 1. that is the biggest turnoff possible. makes any guy feel like shit whether we show it or not

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  36. men and women should be treat equal

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  37. this was so helpful i really hope i dont fuck up my relationship now. i think i can mold myself to be the perfect woman once i get my breasts done.

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  38. Fake boobs are a turn off. So are tons of tattoos and peircings. Natral is the way to go. Cleavage is a turn off too. it shows ur trying to hard...

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  39. this all makes sense, even though I've never really thought about it before. lol girls just want someone who fits them, but we expect a custom fit in an off-the-rack world. we have to be open and understanding, however, it's a two-way street. we want these things too. and i have to agree that guys should always pay and hold the door and stuff. its just nice, and as a woman, i know that that's very attractive.

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  40. this is helpful.

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  41. Ohk, not all guys only want sex. I'm a girl but even I know that's not true. And I don't really care if guys pay for me or not, but if they do, I appreciate it...But they may not always have the money and that is understandable. I personally think that guys who always try to do stuff for me is annoying. I have my own two hands and feet I can do it myself. Idk, maybe that's just me...And what is a major turn off in my opinion is when you're hanging out with your boyfriend and also a few friends and you can't even have a conversation with your friends because he is constantly hugging you or kissing you, so..basically being too clingy.

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  42. I am a girl.I just think it is sad that we read all these love stories and girls expect more out of guys and they abt prince charming blah blah blah and it won't happen like that.I know the Lord wud show me who I shud go out wth.Also these r helpful tips but I wud pray abt the date not go on facebook and read these tips b4 i go on a date lol

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  43. wen boys start a conversation and all they say is ohh. yea. k. ha. shure. ect.. and then expect the girl to feel completly comfortable with it!! it makes things very akward for the gurl cuz it makes her feel like he doesnt care! plus theyre racking their brain tryin to find a topic to talk about or try to keep the conversation up!! 100% complete turnofff for any gurl!! and btw if u start a conversation.. dont go oh. yea. k. ha ect. like that.. actually talk and this lets the gurl know u care!!

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  44. Haha i'm sorry but #1 is actually fat chicks in bikinis, ew.

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  45. like people wouldn't know that..

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  46. the same can be said about girls. we hate these things as well

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  47. haha, fat chiks in bikinis is the biggest turn off known to man.

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  48. Im a Guy and i think that all the girls who think guys should pay for a meal... they cant do shit for themselfs I like an independent woman who needs help only some of the time not like every minute....

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  49. same guy) and who can support me in what i do

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  50. these comments are lame

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  51. im a girl and i want sex too

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  52. This is total bullshit.

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  53. all women are like this, fact

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  54. Hahaha, the girls seem to hate this so much! I love it :L

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  55. im a girl and fair play to boys. not all of them are after one thing - sex.
    And the whole open door,pay for the meal. yeah maybe now and again. or open a door in public. if you want things done for you, do things for them to. it cant just be the man doing nice things like. it works both ways tbh. us girls gotta treat them how we wanna be treated but some boys are cunts. they blame mostly everything on the girl.

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  56. "#1 turn off is women being hairy!!!"
    WTF ?!

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  57. This is so stupid!!!!

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  58. i hate it when all the guy thinks about is sex!!!!

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  59. man boobs turn girls off big time.

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  60. lame. and JaiLiz did have the most common sense outta everyone. like smh tho (puttin the penut butter jelly time)--->family guy in banana on here! wat type of relating is tht to this whole situation. and who ever wrote 1-5, its not true b/c everyone is diff. sum guys may think its controlling, yeahh and some guys actually find some of them cute if they dnt get to annoying wit it . YES AND I d00 VERYYY MUCH AGREE WIT THE DANG TXTN OF 1 WORD BACK, OR WEN THEYY TAKE LIKE 2 HRS. TO WRITE BACK. but yeah u cant put sumthing tht is not 100% true wit all guys. they have there diff. pet peeves, and those are not everyones!

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  63. number three is the worst i had a girl who expected me to do everything for her and the second i didnt we fought, it didnt last all that long

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  64. 1 flakiness
    2 very hairy women
    3 one word texts
    4 never happy
    5 wont do anything for herself

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  65. I would agree with this but if they have a problem why dont they just tell us? we can change our ways to make them happy. some of us want to be in a relationship cos we love them. then if that relationship disappears over something small but they wont tell us why we feel terrible. :( nice for them to be honest with us not lie and say there okay :)

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  66. All the girls out there feeling the need to justify themselves, stop. If you need to justify yourself, you're doing something wrong. I'm a dude, I love my girlfriend, and we have been going out for 3 months and still have not had sex. Because I respect her and I am willing to wait for her. This is a very good list, but every guy could add something. And the same goes for girls. You don't like it when guys do this either. Stop acting as if you're so much better than us.

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  67. I'm a girl and I totally agree with jailiz guys should pay on dates and hold open doors in public, but in return girl should thank them and do something in return like cook for them sometimes or help out with the normal guy chores-car,lawn... Also for me guys watching porn just shows me that they don't consider,appreciate,and respect my feelings because it's obvious girls don't like guys watching that.I agree with the trying to change him,as in you changing everything he does but not changing in return.But if you want something changed about your guy either break up with him or change in return.example-if you comb your hair regularly I will give up watching some shows so you can watch some of your shows/games.Compromising should be part of every relationship.I know there are some men out there that treat women right and don't constanly think about sex,but there are some guys who are the opposite and women never like that kind of guy.

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  68. all the people whom post as anonymous can't spell (when) right, they need to go back to school and learn how to spell correctly.

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  70. I hate it when the guy is a sweet gentlemen and the n when he around his friends he becomes a big jerk

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  71. the 1 word text or getting a text like 5 hrs we send it makes guys feel bad, but its a good thing most girls text more than guys do

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  72. thanks fer the advice

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  73. Couldn't agree more. Girls complain about how guys only think about sex...it's because they haven't found the right guy yet or they're hanging out with the wrong crowd. Number 3 has definitely affected me several times in relationships...the girl would NEVER give up until the argument was another "victory" for her.

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  74. Not Totaly True (comming from a guy). Not at all.

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  75. As a girl, these seem rather reasonable. I mean some guys do need to be changed and guys should still open doors for the girl, but it is a new time period. Women are stronger and smarter and can be in control. Honestly it more of just meeting the other halfway.

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  76. well that was already pretty obvious

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  77. well im having some trouble well my boyfriend always keeps secrets from me and tells me to do things that i dont like, but he can be okay with me sometimes, i just dont get him ''/ x

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  78. Someone said b4 that how all guys think about is sex.. To tell you honestly thats a big portion of what we think about but thats not all we think you females underestimate us because of that stating and making us feel like we can't committ to anything unless its us "gettin it in" meanwhile there are many girls that use guys to get a quick release and by that i mean many females use men for sex and there are some that think about sex either the same amount as guys or more than them

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  79. I'm a girl - What does it mean when a guy doesn't text you back?

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  81. PENISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

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  82. probably when a girl is fucking retarded and knows your going to hangout one day then asks you about it and you dont reply cause obviously you are going to then when you call then and ask when they are coming they say oh well i cant cuase i made other plans.....this is like saying no you suck so fuck off to a guy

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  83. OK...... how do Ya Unlike this crap

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  84. This is pretty stupid... not gonna lie. I'm a guy and Number 3 is a lie.

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  85. THE BIGGEST TURNOFF FOR A GUY IS THE "BLUE WAFFLE" IF U DO NOT KNOW WHAT THAT IS I SUGGEST YOU LOOK IT UP ON GOOGLE AND IM PRETTY SURE EVERY GUY WILL AGREE WITH ME ON THIS ONE :p

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  86. i dont get why all those other girls out there are trying to defend themselves being a girl... there are things we dont like... some similar to the ones listed above for guys, and guys have there dislikes... i am a girl and i completely understand why a guy would hate those things and why they have even come up in the first place.

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  87. Not all guys think about is sex. I have a boyfriend currently, and yeah, he says he loves me alot, but he has not ever mentioned sex to me. If he was happy with who I am he would wait. and if not, he outta there, not all guys think about is sex, some really do care about your feelings, and to every other girl out there who is a desperate hooker, i have one thing to say to you: GET A LIFE! Guys CAN actually care about your feelings. Most do, and girls dump them because its all in their heads that their guy wants sex 24/7. Guys were put on this planet to keep girls company so not all of them would have to be lesbian, and they were put on here, for another reason, to care and listen to girls problems, and if a guy isnt capable of doing that..........then he isnt fit to run a family, or even have a girlfriend for that matter.

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  88. all of you need to realize that nobody is perfect, men or women so dont get pissed at eachother and just shut the fuck up, please!

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  89. I'm a girl, and turns me off when a guy thinks just about sex and the size of my breasts. I can't understand.
    It should be about love, not just about sex.
    And that "rules" should be also for men, because we feel the same way.
    we are all human, we all have feelings.

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  90. This stuff is so true every male I know can't stand these things.

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  91. us girls get the rough end. we get turned off too. like when the guy cheats then lies. Guys think we will get everything for them because they pay or drive. I would be happy. us girls cant be slaves for the rest of our lives. guys take US for granted. they say they do all the work like when you have a kid they say it was all them we carried the kid for 9 months for crying out loud. so guys think we have turn offs too so dont make us the bad guys

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  92. This is not totally true. Yes, it does get a little annoying when girls expect every thing to be done for them, but at the same time, I actually would feel hurt if my fiancé didn't let me do anything for her at all. Sometimes a guy just wants to be a gentleman and help his significant other out a little bit. All the girl has to do is comunicate when the guy starts doing too much. Communication is key in any relationship.

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  93. I'm a girl and were all degraded when guys "falls in love" with a skinny, rich, blonde with big breasts. I they don't think it's for love they think they can have all the sex they want and get us to do whatever THEY want and its NOT fair

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  94. ok the reason a guy talks to a girl is because he sees here and thinks ohh i wanna do her then he talks to her. watever happens afet that is because the inital thought of sex. so if they fall in love have 4 kids buy a white house with a picket fence its because the guy wanted to do her intitaly. if it doesnt work well then it doesnt work

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  95. well i tink tht is part tru i mean im a girl but ya no it makes sense i mean i would wan tht too but its tru tht is one of the things tht boys only tink bout

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  96. im pretty sure there are bigger things that turn guys off..

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  97. This is not totally true. Yes, it does get a little annoying when girls expect every thing to be done for them, but at the same time, I actually would feel hurt if my fiancé didn't let me do anything for her at all. Sometimes a guy just wants to be a gentleman and help his significant other out a little bit. All the girl has to do is comunicate when the guy starts doing too much. Communication is key in any relationship.

    i agree with this guy

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  98. if you're in a relationship it shouldent be for sex. if your wondering yes i am a guy.

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  99. ok we gotta face it some guys are assholes n some woman are bitches you just gotta find some one up to your level n treat each other fairly no ones gunna find someone they absolutely love EVERYTHING about each other but good god i cant believe how many people complain over this stuff

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  100. im a guy, i believe that in a relationship that when you are going out with someone, then you should try to be with them as much as possible. I think that if the girl is going around hanging out with friends alot especially guy friends, that apparently the girl doesn't like you enough. another thing, after the first, 2nd, 3rd, ect kiss, i believe that if you love each other and feel as though you will be together for a fairly long amount of time, that "making out" should come into action. I'm not just saying that either, its just what i think should be. Also, unless you are a guy that isn't looking for a SERIOUS hederosexual relationship, guys like me don't like it when girls act all lesbienish with their girl friends. And im talking aout really jelous ppl (like me). ok well. im done ranting. lol thats my opinion...

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  101. I'm a girl. i know alot of girls and boys who look for just sex. but its never right!

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  102. I'm a chick and I have to agree with that. Guys can do the same things but I have to think that girls are much harder to date than guys.

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  103. ok, i am a guy and these "rules" are accurate in a lot of cases, but not in all. When a guy does something nice for a girl like pay the bill or something of the sort its a guy's personality a lot of the time. The cancelling plans gets annoying after a while but if she has a legitimate reason then he will understand. Trying to change the guy is not something u want to do!

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  104. one word texts, double standards, and guys who won't tell their friends when to but out. i mean, it's ok to have ur friends for some things but i definitely want some alone time with him. it goes both ways to though. girls need to tell their friends when to back off as well

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  105. my boyfriend never lets me pay

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  106. i think its sorta unfair to put this in the context of only this being a turnoff for boys

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  107. Theres too much bullshit in these comments. Yeah, im a girl and i dont expect my boyfriend to pay for my dinner, i expect him to pay for his and me to pay for mine. this - "And a comment to that, GUY SHOULD ALWAYS PAY ON THE DATE!" is a load of crap. And yeah, he may have a raging libido, but im actually capable of putting my foot down and saying "3 times in one day is enough!!!" All of these traditional views of how people should act in relationships have absolutely no modern day application. I love my boyfriend, figurative warts and all.

    Btw, email me at holyscripturesoftheshoppingmall@hotmail.com

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  108. True it's a turn off for girls but think--how many people really just talk about what bother's men? It's not the largest covered subject--I understand all this. I've never done any of this. Hard to get is another thing that upset both genders.

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  109. this is genius. so true man. props.

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  110. I'm a chick, the thing that really pisses me off is when my bf doesnt talk to me.

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  111. -Anonymous said...
    i'm sort of wondering if this was written by a guy or a girl, or a male tht iz only turned off by tht, i want 2 kno who wrote ths cuz i dont want 2 b given advice from som1 who iz the only man who getz turned off by tht, i want 2 kno tht all men r.....then again, som men r willing 2 do som of those things even if we dont ask them 4 it. i also dont get the last part, iz it just on looks, tht part seems tht girls should change 4 the guy even tho we shouldnt change a guy, ths sort of makes me a little mad tht not all the times, us girls dont do tht! sometimes we put more 2 the relationships more than the guy! but do ppl make a page put of tht? no!!!!! we r always going 2 b the bad guys. i understand tht a lot of times the boys get called 2 b the bad guys even tho they arnt, but girls r now being called the bad guys in the relationships even if they didnt do anythings. i agree with u tht some things r unfair 2 the guys, but it also seems 2 b tht itz unfair 2 girls tht we always get blamed in the relationship latly even wen we didnt do anything rong

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    whoever said that might be the type of woman who is always single and easily turns a man off

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  112. I HATE when a guy gives me NO attention like im not an attention hogg but i dont like it when you constanly talk about another girl! ~BIG
    TURNOFF~ and when a guy says "i love you" it takes alot more for a girl to say it then a guy, most of the time. another one is when they act all sweet and then around there friends they are a total jerk to us!

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  113. i wanna fuk a realli hot girl and i need ur help!

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  114. Too many idiots here posting trash!
    Anyone who finds this information useless and not helpful has big issues of their own!

    Relationships should start with a great friendship!
    There must be RESPECT, TRUST, AND COMMUNICATION, BOTH WAYS!!!
    It will not work otherwise!

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  115. As a guy I'm quite flexable to a lot of the minor little proplems with some ladies. But no matter how great she is in personality or looks, if she light's up a smoke, that it all over. I have never been able to kiss a smoker, it realy is like licking an ashtray, and therefor the biggest turnoff ever.

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  116. ya'll are fucked up.

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  117. Biggest turn off for girls:
    When a guy says to a girl "you're hot."

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  118. alright guys think that they can do whatever they want but give thier girl shit when they want to hangout with thier guys friends so guys get over yourself cause girls can have guy friends as just friends they arent going to fuck them if they are just friends so chill

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  119. they stole this from Cosmo..........

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  120. TITTY WISKERS R GROSS

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  121. I'm a girl and I think that this is so stupid and, no offence, so are most of these comments.

    There ARE a lot of guys who just think about sex all the time, but a lot of girls do it to!

    The same with all of these "turn-offs". They can be done by guys and girls and both guys and girls should know (through common sence and getting to know their partner's needs/wants etc)what to do and what not to do!

    Am I right or what?

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  122. my biggest turn off is when she dont make me my sammich on time GET BACK TO THE KITCHEN

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  123. I'm a girl and I don't really think this is what every guy is turned off by. Girls aren't always the bad guys in situations. Guys mess up too, they may not as readily admit it to the world as some girls or guys out there, but it doesn't mean there shouldn't be equal give and take in a relationship. And as replies to some of you, not all guys think about sex 24/7, if they do but they're smart about it, they aren't gonna talk peoples ears off about it. Especially their girlfriends... If sex is all the guys talk about, that's pretty much all their girl is gonna think they want... Unless they know otherwise, and can deal with it. Girls really appreciate when boys are nice to them, hold the door, pay on a date, etc. Doesn't necessarily mean they're gonna be pissed off if they have to bring out their money and help pay for something cuz their guy didn't bring enough money. Some girls can be too independent and some guys might feel a little lost when they wanna do something for her but are afraid(maybe not the best choice of word) she'll be mad(I guess) that he helped her.I don't know how much this is gonna affect anything for anybody, but it's my opinion.

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  124. this is so true. numbers 1, 2, and 3 are by far the most annoying parts of dating girls

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  125. Maybe it's just me, but I see so many females do this it's not even funny. Girls that I think are attractive, but I don't like, and they don't like me either, whose hormones literally go crazy whenever they spot a "hot" guy. Like you see this on T.V., in movies, everywhere and I think this is the biggest turn off. We might be in a bar, having drinks as friends, and a stud will walk in and they will literally go nuts, they turn to each other, probably share their fantasies about him with each other, they get all worked up, ask each other if they look alright, you know, puff on the perfume, and then try to approach him. I mean, ok, wow, just leave your friend at the bar, which you know, it puts me down. I've even witnessed girls in relationships, in public with their partner, tend to act different whenever shes surrounded by a good looking male. Alright ladies, chill your hormones. I'm sure a lot of men do this too, but it's immature.

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  126. WOW.. that was really pointless!

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  127. Okay, This Is Such A Lie, Yeah The Girls Can Be Screw Up's In The Relationship, But This One Guy I Dated Named Mike, Was Such a Player. See, Now THATS Most Of The Problems. Guys Cant Stay True.. But Later.. They'll Realize That They Were The SCREW UPS.

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  128. what is the point of this???? i know this, been through this and HAVE DONE THIS SHIZZZ!!!

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  129. Lol, well. I think everyone has their own turn offs, but those probably are on the top for most men. To all the comments of those thinking that girls look like the bad ones in the relationship, is not true. Guys can just be more laid back than us girls. We need more emotional support, for the most part.
    And not all guys want sex, I know so many men who just want an emotional relationship, and struggle from loneliness. And yes, guys can be players. But so can girls, we're all human, we all make mistakes. Men and women were made to be different, the sooner we accept that, the sooner are relationships will become easier. :)

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  130. a woman probly wrote this

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  131. i think this was kinda obvious... i mean i wouldn't want that to happen to me.. so why would i do it to my boyfriend? i don't think they should pay or do everything for me, i find that very annoying, i have my own two hands i can do it myself. i think there should be an equal reletionship like he pay one night then the girl pay the next... but it is nice once in a while if they do something for you...

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  132. im a girl and i do none of those things i tryed to think of one of those tings i did and i did none of them...so why do all the guys i date go for other wemon ...the guy im with right now dose at least 3 or 4 of those things ..it just makes no sense

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  133. You guys are getting way to worked up over a list of five things that are probably written by someone who has way too much time on their hands and is really lonely.

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  134. Well i am a girl and i feel that it isn't right when all a guy wants is MORE than what your giving him... like if your kissing then he starts touching you, even though you told him no. then he just breaks up with you. guys just need to muture. but i do knoee that there are some guys out there that are not like that. those are the ones us girls need to find ! (:

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  135. fat women in bikinis may be a turn off, but so are fat men showing off their rotund bellys. :3

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  136. im a dude, #3, totally agree, i hate it!

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  137. i am a guy and #1 & #2 are probably the worst on this list.

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  138. Men and Woman both do these. I am a woman and i think number 3 is important woman offer to pay every once and awhile men are not made of money. Talk to whom you are with and compromise say you pay the next time you go out on a date with him. Number 4 is a big one dont change him/her unless they want to dont pressure him/her its his/her's term if you dont like the way he or she is why are you still with them if they are willing to change then Great!

    - Logan Dickson

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  139. ok...all of these "rules" go both ways. i am a female and in my last two relationships i have done all the driving to see them, all the planning as to what we are going to do, everything. neither the male nor the female in the relationship should have to do everything all the time. in today's world we (men and women) are supposed to be equal!

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  140. hey everyone, these arnt the only turn offs, their are alot of different guys, but these r really good ones, no one likes any of this stuff happening to them so guys arnt different

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  141. when guys try 2corntol mee

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  142. When a guy repeatedly brings up his ex-girlfriend, tries to modify you or tell you what you would look good wearing, or comes off as boyish. real girls dig real men. Real men can set their own dang fishing pole. Girls dig guys with some survival skill and independence. Why do they think we dig men in uniform lol.

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  143. lmao @blue waffle comment EWWWWWW lol dont look it up ppl its sick and ya girls lik sex too its just that we hide it lots better and i find it funny that girls r complaining wen its asking for other guy turn offs in comments and yes we should be unhairy i agree

    --sss

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  144. "i'm sort of wondering if this was written by a guy or a girl, or a male tht iz only turned off by tht, i want 2 kno who wrote ths cuz i dont want 2 b given advice from som1 who iz the only man who getz turned off by tht, i want 2 kno tht all men r.....then again, som men r willing 2 do som of those things even if we dont ask them 4 it. i also dont get the last part, iz it just on looks, tht part seems tht girls should change 4 the guy even tho we shouldnt change a guy, ths sort of makes me a little mad tht not all the times, us girls dont do tht! sometimes we put more 2 the relationships more than the guy! but do ppl make a page put of tht? no!!!!! we r always going 2 b the bad guys. i understand tht a lot of times the boys get called 2 b the bad guys even tho they arnt, but girls r now being called the bad guys in the relationships even if they didnt do anythings. i agree with u tht some things r unfair 2 the guys, but it also seems 2 b tht itz unfair 2 girls tht we always get blamed in the relationship latly even wen we didnt do anything rong"

    Is being retarded a turn off?

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  145. You know what's also annoying? The title of this article; it's grammatically incorrect. The predicate comes BEFORE the subject, NOT after, so the tittle SHOULD be "5 Biggest Things That Turn Off Men" NOT "5 Biggest Things That Turn Men Off". Of course, I could be totally mistaken.

    ~Mad Vulcan

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  146. I LOVE SUCKING COCKS!!!!!!! SO IF U WANT SOMEONE TO SUCK UR COCK HIT ME UP!!!!

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  147. i`m a dude, and nothing made sense except #3 :S

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  148. ok i am a chick and i am happily married but if there is one thing that turns me off is when one guy thinks they speak for all guys with there opinion about chicks everybody sees people differently so since when did you develope the power to choose every guys turn off

    -danielle murphy

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  149. these go for both male and female

    coming from a dude

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  150. tbh i can aggree with both sides of the stories here men can be right ashole's and so can women it all depends on what type of pesonality the have im a man by the way

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  151. I dislike when women decide all men are horny jerks just looking to get their fill.

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  152. i hate it when my boyfriend is soo nice and sweet to me but when he is around his friends he acts like im invisalble and not around!!

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  153. thank u somone in here has some sense im a girl and ive been with some awsome and we both agreed sex wasnt on the top the list so not all guys only think bout ways of gettin in ur pants some of them want to get to know u for u and im lucky most of them do and i honestly a big turn off for me is when a guy dosnt bother to ask were i draw the line and how far i will go i was so happy when i was talkin to guy and we were gonna hang out and the first thing he asked me after we decided to was were i stand on the whole sex and how far do i go i love that a guy wants to b carful and dosnt want to just afend me cuz he didnt bother to ask me but yes guys can b imature but they also can b awsome :)

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  154. This is so true. Atleast for me, Woman should take notes.

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  155. Blue :

    well am a girl too and its very true that if the guy is being nice to you.. we should also apprecitae him and do good to him..
    To protect your own relation , the most important thing to do undersatanding and if there is no understanding the relation is just too fake and meaning less..
    If there is no understanding among the couples l would rather suggest them to be apart and live their own lifes :-)

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  156. Thumbs up for an illustrated article about the biggest turn ONs :)

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  157. it says that men don't want 2 b changed then it tells woman how 2 change 4 men, stupid

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  158. seriously yu people are so sad commenting on this stupid shit haha, if a guy is gonna use yu, fukin use him back before he hurts yu. pretty simple hahah

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  159. a lad trys to act cool around u lame

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  160. wot about wen u guys pass wind or burp and fall about in hysterics because u think its cool wen actually its a big no no or talk about wot u did with some girl b4 u met ur present 1, we dnt want 2 know the gory details and as 4 those 5 turn offs 4 men they also apply 2 us women

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  161. To whoever said the "1 word text" thing, the reason she is doing that, is either that she's shy, you are boring her, or she doesn't want to talk to you and she doesn't want to be mean by saying that, hahahah.
    That's the only reason I've ever done it.
    I try not to, though, I only do it when I'm trying to hint that I'm not in a talking mood, or whatever. And my guy catches on. Either that, or I just tell him I'm not in a talking mood. I don't like sounding rude though.

    And to those of you who say that it is pointless, actually, it's pretty accurate... I learned that the hard way..

    You just gotta make sure you are very careful with the guys you choose to be with... If you choose carefully, you'll end up with a sweetheart and gentleman, who is NOT just after sex, but loves your personality, your laugh, your quirkiness, and everything about you. :)
    I miss him... :/

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  162. This is so stupid.

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  163. number one turn off for women?
    a womanbeater.

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  170. hahh, who caresssss. xd.
    i'll help pay for dinner and i'm a girl.
    does it really matter? D;
    at least i'm not stuck up and needy and shet.
    poor guys. ;(

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  171. Okay one thing, the opening the door and paying for the meal and anything like that just shows how classy a guy can be, it shows kindness and a willingness to treat a girl right...most of the time if the guy doesn't pay for the meal he can really come off as non-courteous and a bum....but also this rule mostly applies to a first date after the first couple of dates he doesn't ALWAYS have to pay

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  172. Yeah there is more to a relationship then sex,its all about making sandwiches too!

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  173. relationships r all about cocks asses and pussy to me

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  174. ALL OF U R GAY FUCKERS AND NEED TO SUCK MY DICK

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  175. im a dude and i bothers me when girls think that all i want is sex when i dont so everything gets weird for no acurate reason. I also don lik grls wo mak mi spel cerectily. I cen spel howeve i wanna spel.

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  176. What load of shit..i guess humans spend half of their life time trying to figure about the opposite sex..
    Talk about humans as the most intelligent species..pretty pathetic actually..
    wish people woud use their time on much more important things..

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  177. who gives a shit? seriously! whoever made this crap up needs a life!

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  178. i'm a girl, but lads can be like that aswel. i don't see why we are the ones being blamed all the time. and no, not 'all' lads want sex constantly. if you think that you clearly don't know enough decent lads. and anyway, alot of girls want sex alot of the time too, so stop being hypocrites!
    yea and i agree with the 'one word texts'. that is annoyin' as hell, but we all do it when we're pised off

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  179. This is Bullshit..!!!

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  180. this was a waste of my time reading.
    all those things are stupid, and its common sense things... just like
    TURN OFF # SIX: "guys really don't appreciate it when you cheat on them, this is a major turn off"
    ^ no kidding?!

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  181. As a woman who's been dating for 11 months, I have to say that men are the biggest flakes of all! Not fair to pin flakiness on women. I have never stood someone up, but guys will make plans and then they are nowhere to be found when the time comes. And all you get later is "oh, I was busy". Wow, way to make us ladies feel special.

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  182. i can see why all of those are bad but have you guys ever put yourselves in are shoes you want kids but you don't have to carry that child for all 9 months and you don't go through labour like we do when you do that just maybe you will see why we want to be treated nicely we like you to pay for things its because you don't have to go threw the hell/blessing that we do so grow up and stop bitching.

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  183. Tonight flesh eating zombies will eat your favorite elderly couple. The only way to prevent this is to flap your arms like a chicken and scream 'Gullible' at the top of your lungs. then post this into all the comment boxes you can find. Stop the spam. This is real.

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  184. To the poster above me:
    Hey look, a girl who decided to complain back.

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  185. Every point you made is applicable to guys, it's a 50/50 playing field, guys can be as bad as girls. Do you ever think girls don't like guys to be possessive and over-protective, but sadly a lot of guys are. It's suffocating and a major turn-off. Think about the things you guys do as well as what us girls do. We both have our flaws.

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  186. What really turns me off is the fact that women always say bad stuff about guys, like always thinking of sex. C'mon, gimme a break. To me, that's being completely selfish and racist to males. Just because everyone says guys think about sex all the time doesn't mean it's true, so stop watchig TV. Wake up to the real life. And it turns me down because as I talk to friends I don't say bad stuff about girls, I actually love being with them (i mean friendly, don't be a perv) but what I see is that girls talking alone about boys end up arguing about how stupid they are. I just don't understand.

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  187. A girls number one turn off for me is when a guy smacks your butt and thinks it's funny...its rude and uncomfortable!

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  188. im a girl... and boys have no idea how annoying it is when we write a long paragraph of a text and all we get is one word(k, ha, or idk) it really ticks me off when boys do that and i think every girl thinks the same thing. when they text about there day, ur supposed to be supportive or cooperative... not bored. i could write 20 turn offs for guys! you boys have no idea what we think when u send that one word text!! its annoying, stop!!!!!!! am i right girls???!!

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  189. Violent GUys And Girls Turn Me Off. I Mean If He's Violent Then Wheres that chance hes not gonna hurt you or beat you

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  190. Guys who are selfish, always takes decisions in favor of them . Always want sex and believes they are the man there and gives instructs at anytime they like.

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  191. 5 Turn Offs For Girls:
    1. When guys smack your butt, and thinks its funny.
    2. When guys fart, or burp right in front of you and dont even say excuse me.
    3. When they flirt with other girls, and keep stff from you.
    4. When they dont smell good, dont take showers.
    5. Lets just say " Treat your girl right or someone else will ".
    - Anonymous<3. -

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